This is how we do it: ‘If I’m honest, the fact that Thomas was married made it more exciting’

Why This Matters

Key context: <p>Vivian and Thomas both left physically unfulfilling marriages and are rediscovering their sex drives in later life</p><p>• <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/sep/08/would-you-and-your-sexual-partner-like-to-share-the-story-of-what-you-get-up-to-in-the-bedroom"><strong>How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously</strong></a></p><p>Since menopause and being with Thomas, my interest in sex is much higher</p> <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/aug/02/this-is-how-we-do-it-married-exciting">Continue reading...</a> This development from The Guardian highlights ongoing changes in the sector.